Don’t put your expectations on people’s behaviour, especially rely too much on showing your clingy character. You need to be confident and independent to help you improve yourself and also to be able to solve a lot of problems on your own. And again, it’s not 100% work for anyone, I did the research and put together some sources, and you have the right to process, read, or feel uncomfortable by seeing this advice. I’ll begin!
There are 5 benefits of becoming Independent and Well Developed
Confident
You’ll become more confident, leading you to a meaningful life to pursue your purpose in life.
Well Spoken
Our words are our power, don’t hesitate to come up with a brilliant or maybe a weird idea, even though you probably know that people around you might reject your idea. Sometimes our closest people are the ones who might let us down and make us feel ‘dumb.’
As a reminder, each of us has the right to ACCEPT or REFUSE other’s opinions. It’s all up to you whether you want to process those negative comments or not.
And also ….
I believe that most of us are afraid to be rejected by our parents, friends, environment, or maybe by ourselves. Some sources mentioned that ‘we shouldn’t be afraid to be rejected.” I know it’s hard to believe, but as I write this content, I’m still struggling to handle the fear of rejection.
Instead of being afraid of rejection, we need to come up with productive discussion and thought, so maybe you’re the one who can influence others.
Strong Personality
Throw your pessimism.
I feel you. I know it is not easy. Pessimism is a negative identity stuck with our lives because of the pressure pushing us to our limits. We’re not gonna label ourselves with that word forever, right?
So, we need to make up our minds to choose another label, the positive one.
We must improve ourselves at least 1% daily by focusing on our habits, perspective, and mindsets rather than on our outcomes or goals. Straighten your back, raise your head, and try to believe in yourself!
Don’t doubt yourself. Each of us has a special power to make our dreams come true!
Decision
Design your own path and make your own calculations. No one can always be there for us. The only person you can depend on is YOURSELF. When you rely on yourself more than others, you’ll see and say, “I’m capable! I’m able to reach this level by myself! I’m proud of myself.”
It’s very satisfying to say that, right?
Don’t Seek Approvals
Everyone has their own choices, ways of thinking, and also actions. Whatever we do and wherever we go, don’t hesitate just because of the other’s opinion. Sometimes it’s okay to listen to their opinion when you’re not sure about something, but in the end, you’re the one who will choose.
That’s all that I can share for today’s content!
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