Each person is deserved to be loved and treated with kindness and respect. People are expected to be treated equally, but still, what makes each person grows differently is the interaction of love from people around us. A different interpretation of love and how we receive affection develops into a part of our personality.
Almost all people who managed to survive in this world have injuries or scars within them, whether emotional, spiritual, or even physical. No matter how many scars we have, all of us will also have some beautiful memories. Beautiful and worth-remembering memories are usually connected with deep emotions such as love.
Love is not shallow, and love is precious. Love shapes, changes, and creates our psychological stability. And to distinguish which love is permanent, we need another variable to test it. Every relationship can come and go, we can’t predict, and we can’t fully entail ourselves to each connection, as we might lose our minds if we give ourselves away.
Even though, someday or now, we haven’t been with that or ‘ex-special’ people, the memories with them will always stay. We are not simply finished products that shape by ‘present’ interaction. Whom we are today accumulated through all types of experiences.
Every inch of memory imprints in our life, just like we are a living database with maybe exabytes or even yottabytes of data. Our system is too complex to be deciphered. It links to many different parts of the body and brain system.
And, we were not born with trauma or born evil. We create and experience things we can’t accept mentally or logically, turning them into trauma or a disorder.
Having and experiencing too much love is not lead us to have a healthy personality either. We need an appropriate amount of everything to expand and largen the odds of having a good quality of life for our well-being.
We are imperfect, and when we realize we have too many wounds, we must be willing to repair them. At least, we need to remind ourselves that we are worthy and deserve to be treated well and able to turn OUR table so that we CAN be a better person, a better version of who we are.
Let’s not use our past hurtful experiences to pull people closer.
I mean, each of us knows whom we deserve. We are victims, but it doesn’t mean we should play victims. Let’s give more attention to those who deserve it. Not all people deserve your love, your care, and your sincerity.
“Love is not cheap, so be mindful when choosing whom to share one of your greatest assets.“
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